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I believe that a well designed,
sensitive and compassionate ceremony is important to enable
the family to say goodbye to their loved one. A celebration
of life will honour them with personal and meaningful
commemorative reflection.
Funeral ceremonies are very important
opportunities for family and friends to reflect, remember
and participate meaningfully. Each should be personal and
individually tailored and not part of a set program that is
used over and over. Designed to suit the particular
philosophy of the deceased, (with or without an element of
religious content) a ceremony should also reflect the degree
of spirituality that is meaningful to the family, so as to
offer comfort, support and a sense of hope. Many people
prefer not to use a formal church service to farewell their
loved one, if this is the case then it is possible for us to
discuss other appropriate options.
 Although
the death of a loved one is always a sad occasion, I believe
it should celebrate the life of the deceased, contemplating
not only the significance of the loss, but also create the
opportunity for reflecting upon the special gifts bought by
the friend or loved one who has touched their lives.
I will gently guide you through the
process of creating the ceremony, giving assistance with
choosing the most suitable style of service to make it an
appropriate farewell. The family is encouraged to help
choose the wording, music and readings that are appropriate
to pay tribute to the life of their beloved family member.
As you celebrant my role is to help identify appropriate
rituals to incorporate into the service by presenting and
explaining a variety of resources and ideas that can be used
to individualize the service.
The presentation of the Eulogy and/or
other sections of the service may be prepared and delivered
by family members or friends. Those who wish to participate
should be encouraged to do so, as this often forms a
significant introduction to the grieving and healing
process. If required, I am able to co-ordinate the process
of writing the eulogy, in consultation with the family;
accurately planning and checking details to ensure it’s
delivery according to personal wishes.
Memorial booklets, perhaps including a
photograph of the loved one and content of their service are
a way in which those who attend are welcomed and encouraged
to feel part of the proceedings. I can also assist with the
preparation of these and help to organize the printing if
necessary.
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